Indonesian Lady Problems - Indonesian Bar Girls

Having problems with your Indonesian lady? There can be a lot of different reasons why you might be having problems... cultural misunderstandings, lack of trust, lack of freedom, jealousy, or something else. However, the most common reason we are hired, is to investigate Indonesian bar girls who have foreign men as boyfriends, husbands, or fiancée.

Many times, the guy has met a girl in a bar who swears up and down she doesn’t want to work there but has no choice because she has to take care of the family, and a lot of the time this is true, well most of it is anyway. But there are also a lot of girls who work as prostitutes in go go bars who are very bad news, drug addicted scammers whose main goal is to find western men to supply her with a constant stream of spending money to support her drug habit as well as supply her with the latest mobile phone, designer clothes, cars or motorbikes, you name it. These bad news girls are the ones you have to be on the lookout for, and there are thousands of them operating out of Indonesia’s notorious bar scene. If you met a girl in Indonesia who was working in a bar when you met, she may very well still be working there (or another bar) and telling you she quit to keep you quiet and to keep the cash flow coming. Many of these girls have more than one man on the hook at one time and we usually find that they have several. Most of the guys are totally unaware of the fact that they are being played and the reason is that these girls are masters of manipulation and guilt.

They have a story for every problem that may arise including water got in phone, I was sleeping, I was in the shower, I was at Mama’s house way out in the boonies upcountry (no phone signal) buffalo broke leg, you name it, the excuse is there. The fact is that many times they are telling the truth, but we find that much of the time it isn’t the truth at all and in fact the reason she can’t pick up the phone is because you will hear the background music in the disco she is in, or you may hear the guy she is with talking in the background.

Indonesian Girlfriend Check - Indonesian Bar Girls

Not all Indonesian women are like this though and in fact there are a great many very good girls who are working in bars, but they haven’t been there long enough to become the hardcore bar girl yet. Does this mean all Indonesian ladies who work in bars are dirty rotten scammers? Of course not, and in fact, some of the girls who work in bars are very good girls who just don’t really have much of a choice and join up on the bar scene for a short period of time in order to make some money to help take care of family. The problem arises when they spend too much time in the bar and greed and the influence of hardened bar girls takes them over, then you have a problem. Of course, in most cases you aren’t going to find the girl of your dreams working in a go go bar, but there have been many success stories of guys who have met girls in bars and ended up getting married, starting families and living happy lives, it’s just that we don’t often hear of that too often these days as we had in the past, times have changed and so has the attitude of many Indonesian girls who work in bars.

So, what can you do? First of all, don’t go looking for a sweet and innocent Indonesian lady in a go go bar because chances are you aren’t going to find her. If you are fascinated with Indonesian women and want to meet a good Indonesian lady, try going to regular bars or clubs where normal Indonesian folks go, only remember, you will be much better off if you have an Indonesian friend who can go with you and act as your liaison between other Indonesian people, and especially good Indonesian ladies, of which there are many! Just don’t ogle and act like a sex tourist because you will get nowhere. Pubs are a good place to start as there are many Indonesian women who are fascinated with foreign men and they might go to a good pub to mingle with westerners. Many clients have a Indonesian lady/girlfriend but live in another country. When things go wrong, or suspicious activities arise, it may be time to call in a Indonesia Private Investigator to help you get the facts. So, how do you know if you have met a good Indonesian lady or not? Keep reading below for more information and some general tips.


So, how do you know if you have met a good Indonesian lady or not? Here are some general tips.

  • Calls you often and is home when you call, or picks up her mobile phone when you call.
  • Met in a pub popular with Indonesian people, restaurant, museum, shopping mall, city park, etc.
  • Doesn’t constantly hammer you for cash, in fact never asks for money.
  • Comes from a good Indonesian family.
  • Has a regular job and is college educated.
  • Didn’t meet her in a go go bar, beer bar, or disco frequented by freelance prostitutes.
Problematic signs from your Indonesian girlfriend:

  • Met in a go go bar, disco, beer bar, or beer garden.
  • Doesn’t answer calls, hides her mobile from you.
  • Constantly asks you for money, Papa sick, phone broke, buffalo broke leg etc.
  • Hearing other men’s voices in the background when you call her mobile.
  • Hearing loud disco music in the background when you call her.
  • Going to Temple for a week, can't contact her.
  • Doesn’t have a regular job.
  • Disappears for days on end and then says she was at Mama’s house
Reasons you may want to an Indonesian Private Investigator to investigate a case for you:

  • Has your Indonesian girlfriend ever worked in a bar, go go bar, beer garden, or is she still working in a bar, go go bar or other nightlife establishment in Indonesia?
  • Was your Indonesian girlfriend working in a bar, go go bar, or other nightlife establishment when you meet her, but now swears up and down that she has quit, yet when you call her late at night she either doesn’t answer the phone, or you hear loud music in the background?
  • Does your Indonesian girlfriend try to hide her mobile phone from you when you are around, or put it in silent mode and then disappear into another room if a call or sms comes through when you are present?
  • Does your Indonesian girlfriend seem to always have conflicting stories or stories that change all the time and just seem to far fetched to be reasonable?
  • Does your Indonesian girlfriend have more than one E-mail address or multiple user ID’s on Indonesian dating sites?
  • Does your Indonesian lady/girlfriend have lots of nice designer clothes, a new fancy mobile phone, lots of goldr?
There are many reasons why you might consider hiring an Indonesian Private Investigator to investigate your Indonesian girlfriend and the above mentioned reasons are just a few of the warning signs, but on the other hand, at times these things do happen (leaving the phone at home, dead battery, phone got rained on) but these things are only likely to happen once. We are usually able to help in almost any circumstance as long as it doesn’t involve any criminal activity or is meant to harm another person in a physical manner. If you suspect your Indonesian girlfriend is up to no good and you want to get revenge on her and ask us for help, you won’t get it. However, if you are having problems with your Indonesian lady that concern you and you think something may be going on that isn’t okay with you, and she isn’t being forthcoming or cooperative, please feel free to contact us and let us help you discover the truth of the matter so you can decide what you want to do.

If you have any other legitimate concern and need to hire an Indonesian Private Investigator to assist you, please feel free to contact us at any time with your private investigation inquiry and we will do our very best to help you resolve the matter with a fact based investigation designed to help you know the truth.



Since 2001 Indonesia Private Investigators has handled more than 2200 cases related to infidelity, missing persons, business background checks and more.

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