IndoPI is frequently contacted to conduct an Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check. The majority of clients requesting an Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check are foreign men. Sometimes they are expats living in Indonesia. Most are living here because they met a Indonesian girl in a bar and moved here to be with her. In this kind of relationship problems will arise according to what is going on behind the scenes. In general, the cases involve the following criteria.
A big concern for foreign men is the risk of STD’s. Most girls will wear a condom during sex. But that condom usually comes off after a week or two. The risk of contracting an STD is very real. Indonesian Bar Girls normally have an Indonesian husband or boyfriend. They also have sex with the girl involved with the foreign man. They are also having sex with other women as well in most cases. It is common for customers to pay more money if he doesn’t use a condom. Some Indonesian Bar Girls will agree to this, especially with older men.
You are better off to find out the truth sooner rather than later. If you are involved with a Indonesian girl who works in a bar, definitely sooner. Once you push your chips in it is difficult to get anything back. So, the deck is stacked against the foreign man in Indonesia. As in Vegas, the house usually wins. Before you invest anything contact a professional Indonesian Private Detective first. You may save yourself a lot of money, and maybe your life too. There are a lot of dangerous people lurking around the sex trade. Mafia, drug dealers, drug addicts, and some seriously dangerous people.
An Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check is a tricky task. It can also be a dangerous one. When large amounts of money is involved people’s livelihood is at stake. A house, condo, or apartment could be housing family members or a brother or sister. Trying to take this away will cause serious problems. So will the retraction of large amounts of cash. Once your money is handed over it is difficult to get it back. Impossible most of the time.
Your best course of action is to hire a Indonesian Private Detective first. Then have him conduct an Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check first. Always do this before you make any investment of transfer of large amounts of cash. We understand that our work can result in major, life changing decisions in other peoples’ lives. So, we are cautious in our approach. Discretion is the top priority in any Indonesia Private Investigation. It is in your best interests, and ours. The ability to conduct an investigation undetected is the top priority. A confrontation with the subject is to be avoided at all costs. When we conduct an investigation the investigator will either be an Indonesian national or a foreign expat. It depends on the case and the location. In rural areas of Indonesia an Indonesia national will investigate 90% of the time.
In areas where there are high concentrations of tourists or expats, an expat investigator will be used. Bali, Jakarta, Lombok, and Surabaya are areas where an expat investigator is likely to conduct the investigation. When the case involves a girl working in a bar or sex club, the investigator will usually be an expat. It is easy for an expat investigator to blend into these areas undetected. In 16 years of investigation I’ve never been caught out once. The reason is because of my experience and knowledge of Indonesia and the culture. My background in Insurance fraud investigation is why I am so good at what I do.
Nobody thinks they are being investigated. Very few people look over their shoulder in their daily routine. This makes it easier to conduct an investigation undetected. An amateur or inexperienced person who thinks he is a qualified Indonesian Private Detective is a liability. This person will make mistakes that can result in serious consequences. Always hire a professional Indonesian Private Detective. There are a lot of fakes and pretenders on the Internet posing as Indonesian Private Detectives. They will make costly mistakes that can come back on YOU.
Stealth and discretion are the two valuable skills a professional Indonesian Private Detective relies on. In every Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check discretion is the highest priority. I use a host of disguises. The use of wigs, fake mustaches, different glasses, and hats is part of my routine. I carry a bag with me that has several props like this. I change shirts and pants in the afternoon and never wear any loud or memorable clothing. Bland Bob, that is the appearance that works. Most important is the no eye contact rule. I never make direct eye contact with the subject of an investigation. People can remember a person they looked in the eye.
A Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check may require travel to outer provinces of Indonesia. An Indonesian national is used when a case requires travel to farm villages, small towns, or rural areas. Most of the time it is my Indonesian partner. She loves to travel and loves to do cases out of town. I usually accompany her. A husband and wife (looking) team is very effective in the Indonesian Private Detective business.
Proper Indonesian ladies (those who aren’t prostitutes or scammers) are much less to worry about. Most who have a relationship with a foreigner are fairly open and honest, and have good intentions. When I say proper Indonesian ladies, I mean those who have reputable jobs and a college education. Proper Indonesian ladies in Indonesia are more conservative than western women. Most are good people and innocent and would never think of scamming you or ripping you off. These are the Indonesian women you want to meet if you are looking for a relationship with an Indonesian woman. On the other hand, a relationship with a Indonesia Bar Girl is a different story. A story with a sand ending most of the time. Avoid at all costs.
You’ve probably read stories of foreign men being ripped off by Indonesian ladies. In 99% of those cases the relationship involved a foreign man and a Indonesian Bar Girl or an Indonesian Freelance Prostitute. Proper Indonesian ladies usually have a good job and their own money. They come from good families and aren’t on The Game like Indonesian Bar Girls. Proper Indonesian ladies are a much better choice for a relationship. They bring something to the table and have manners and intelligence. A proper Indonesian lady isn’t going to tell you stories like Buffalo broke leg, Papa sick in hospital. In my experience, Indonesian women are wonderful people, kind, gentle, and loyal.
Another popular tool for Indonesia Bar Girl Scam is using Indonesian Dating Sites. They are full of scammers but also proper Indonesian ladies. A lot of foreign men are scammed by women using these dating sites. I’ve had cases where a foreign man met a girl on a Thai Dating Site and sent her thousands of dollars without ever meeting her. They fell in love over the Internet and also fell for the Indonesian Bar Girl Scam. It happens a lot and the frequency is on the rise. Most of the men are over 50, out of shape, and have no game when it comes to meeting women. They are easy marks for a Indonesian Bar Girl Scam.
Another scam frequently used on unsuspecting foreign men is the phony college girl routine. Indonesian Freelance Prostitutes will dress in the Indonesian college student standard attire. A black skirt and a white buttoned shirt. Most of the time the skirt is short and the shirt fits tightly. This is a common ploy that works well on unsuspecting targets. The girl will say she is going to college to study to improve her life. The high cost of college education then comes into play. A lot of these girls are in truth a Indonesian Freelance Prostitute.
Other Indonesian Freelance Prostitutes can be found in 5 Star hotel bars and lounges. There isn’t much the 5 Star hotel can do about it. You can’t outright accuse a patron of being a prostitute though nearly every girl in the bar is one. Everyone else knows the real story anyway, but not the guest of the hotel on his first trip to Jakarta. They are easy targets for a Indonesian Freelance Prostitute. I won’t mention the names of these establishment but a quick Internet search will return the correct results.
This is a common outcome of a Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check. Clients contact us after hearing other voices in the background when they call their Indonesian girlfriend on the phone. It is usually the voice of another foreign man they hear. It is not uncommon for a Indonesian Bar Girl or prostitute to have 3, 4, 5, or more men going at the same time. I’ve done many cases where this is the outcome, the discovery of other men in her life. The idea is to get as much money coming in from as many men as possible. An Indonesian Bar Girl can replace you in a heartbeat. Thousands of foreigners arrive to Indonesia on a daily basis to restock the fishing pond.
When we conduct a Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check the first thing we search for is a marriage certificate. However, some Indonesian marriages are not officially on public record. Village ceremonies are common and not always on record. She may even be married to a foreign man who lives abroad and has not moved to Indonesia yet. This is common too. Multiple boyfriends and multiple customers are normal in the life of a Indonesian Bar Girl.
One particular case comes to mind. A stunning Indonesian Bar Girl working in well known strip club in Jakarta. She was one of the most beautiful Indonesian girls I’ve ever seen. My objective was to find out if she had any other boyfriends and if she was still working in the bar. She told her U.K. boyfriend she quit the bar. A long story short, I ended up in her apartment and met her Mother there. Her Mother was the Indonesian version of Mr. T. With so much gold around her neck I wondered how she remained upright. When her Mother left I asked how much money she could make working in the bar.
She took a calendar out of her desk drawer and showed it to me. It was full of customers she had sex with. Each entry had a country of origin and amount paid for sex. I was looking at the month of July, then I looked at the previous pages. All nearly full with the same kind of entries. If that wasn’t enough she took out a small notebook. On the pages of the notebook was an entry for all the men who were sending her money on a monthly basis. I believe it had 8 or 9 names in it. It had names, country of origin, age, phone number, and email address of each man. Honk Kong, China, Japan, USA, U.K., Korea, France, and a few others. Each entry had the amount of money she received from each man.
If you need to have a Indonesian Girlfriend contact us. We have more than 16 years experience in Thailand. There is nothing we have not seen. A professional Indonesian Private Detective will be able to get you all the facts. Photo/Video evidence is provided in addition to a daily written report by email. Contact us now for a free no obligation consultation.