CHEATING INDONESIAN SPOUSE
Cheating Indonesian spouse. In this post, I’m going to discuss the typical infidelity cases we handle. While you hear a lot of Indonesian spouse and Indonesian girlfriend stories, we investigate them. We will discuss some specifics here. Many cheating Indonesian spouse cases are infidelity cases involving Indonesian bar girls who formerly worked in bars. Some of these girls are still working in the bar, unknown to their partner. A lot of Indonesian bar girls get involved in a relationship with a foreign man. We get a lot of situations like this. So, it is quite clear that most foreign men do not understand the Indonesian way of thinking. This ignorance of the Indonesian way is 90% of the problem as well as the cause of most of their troubles
Privacy and discretion are paramount, of course. It is the first thing a prospective client asks us while making their initial inquiry. Is my information confidential and private? The answer is always yes! So when we take a case, we know the client wants a discrete Indonesian private investigator working for them. Hence, we never disclose private information to a third party for any reason. For instance, we never sell email addresses or other personal information. As a result, you can rest assured that your privacy is safe and secure with us.
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Cheating Indonesian spouse
There are three different kinds of results in my book. A good result, an unfortunate result, and an “I didn’t have enough time” result. The latter usually happens when a case period ends, and the client doesn’t want to continue. It is generally due to financial reasons. However, given the required time, I can always solve a case.
We have handled hundreds and hundreds of cheating Indonesian spouse cases since 1999. Clients ask what percentage of cases get solved. The answer is 98%. The other 2% that don’t get solved is due to the fact we didn’t have enough time to solve the case. Again, this is usually because the client has financial concerns. However, most cases take 1-2 weeks in general. It all depends on the circumstances at the time the investigation starts.
The most extended case I worked personally, lasted 3 1/2 months. I was able to get the evidence on the 4th day of the last week. On that day, another man showed up at the house my client bought for his cheating Indonesian spouse. It turned out this other man (German) was also a financial contributor to purchasing the home. Neither man knew about the other. In the end, she exposed herself as a two-timer, and that was the end of the game. The client had the money and the time to get the result. Therefore, we were able to get the evidence. He said he just knew something was wrong on every extension of the case. He was correct. It turned out the whole thing was a scam from the beginning.
Cheating Indonesian spouse
The stories vary here and there, but there is a common thread in most infidelity cases. That thread is the general misunderstanding of Indonesian culture and the Indonesian way. It is the main reason so many foreign men have a cheating Indonesian spouse. They don’t understand what they are doing. So, it causes difficult situations. Getting involved with Indonesian bar girls and then marrying them is usually the wrong decision. Most men who become involved with Indonesian bar girls lose everything in the end. Sometimes, in the millions of dollars.
Since a lot of our investigations involve Indonesian bar girls, we know this is true. We see it over and over again. So, you have to understand what is going on behind the scenes. The existence of an Indonesian husband or boyfriend, for instance. You must also understand that there could be others besides you. A lot of cheating Indonesian spouse cases involve previously married Indonesian women. Meaning, they are already married to an Indonesian man. An Indonesian private investigator can find this out for you.
In most cases, Indonesian bar girls are juggling several men at once. The more men they have, the more money they can make. It is all about the money, just like everything else in today’s world. In Indonesia, money talks, and cash is boss. So, expect to spend a lot of your money if you have a Indonesian girlfriend you met in a bar.
Understanding the Indonesian way
Rule number one in Indonesia is to take care of the family first. It is valid in all Asian countries. It is part of the culture. So, it also means that if you take on a Indonesian girlfriend, you will take care of the family as well. However, this condition causes a lot of problems. Many foreign men do not agree on this, and they don’t want to support the family. So, that makes problems for the girl. The whole reason she went to work in a bar is to find a good man. A man with money. A man who will take care of her and her family as well, for instance.
However, some situations in the dark corners of Indonesian society are unknown. Gambling and alcoholism are two big problems in the country. A lot of Indonesian bar girls are working to pay off their father’s gambling debts. We hear about situations like this all the time. Another big problem is poverty, of course. Most of the girls working in bars are poor farm girls. A job in a weak part of the country will pay five million Rupiah a month. Indonesian bar girls can make the same amount in a few days. So, it is easy to understand why so many girls work in bars.
Cheating Indonesian spouse
In some poor Indonesian villages, there are big houses with new cars. Those homes belong to girls who found a foreign man to take care of the whole family. Her husband has money, and he takes care of her. When other women in the same village see this, they want to know how they can achieve the same thing. The reason is always the same. The woman with the Bule husband, the house, and the money, worked in a bar. She met her foreign husband there. A man like this is what they call a good man. He takes care of everything. He pays all the bills, and he takes care of the whole family. Not just his Indonesian wife or girlfriend.
The problem starts when you discover you may not be the only good man in town. There could be another man you don’t know exists. He could have a similar situation as you. So, what is the common thread between the two of you? You both have the same cheating Indonesian spouse. There are cases where we find some girls have three or more men at the same time. We also find that many Indonesian women working as Indonesian bar girls are already married to Indonesian men. So, this is why you want to engage a Indonesian private investigator. We can discover situations like this. It is what we do best.
Get peace of mind
Hey, we get it. Peace of mind is the bottom line, while privacy is a top priority. There is nothing worse than not knowing the truth. Dark secrets hiding in the shadows isn’t fun for anyone. It eats away at your peace of mind and causes stress and worry. So, we understand your dilemma. When we take a case, we know what the end game is. It is to give the client peace of mind while resolving the situation with the truth.
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