Indonesia on the game. Indonesian bar girls and freelance prostitutes are common in Indonesia (and many other countries). However, Indonesia seems to get the lion’s share of publicity. A lot of that publicity is negative. Foreign men are getting ripped off by Indonesian prostitutes, bar girls, and scammers working on Internet dating sites. It is a widespread problem that you must be aware of when you come to Indonesia or meet an Indonesian lady online on an Indonesian dating website.

“Things come apart so easily when they have been held together with lies.”

While the majority of Indonesian women you will meet on an Indonesian dating site will be genuinely innocent and not out to bilk you out of your money, there are a great deal more who are looking to do just that. It happens all the time, and many men believe the sob stories and are manipulated by some very crafty women who know exactly how to push your buttons. There are numerous sources for information on Indonesia and the bar girl scene, and many of these websites have a vast amount of information that will help you understand some of the problems you might run into when getting involved with an Indonesian bar girl or prostitute.

Indonesia on the game, scams.

Indonesia on the game, scams.

Indonesia on the game

A simple search on Google or Yahoo for “Indonesian bar girl horror stories” or Indonesian dating site rip-offs” may yield a significant amount of information that may be useful to the unknowing rookie who has not had much experience in Indonesia. A lot is going on just beneath the surface that many unsuspecting men are unaware of and find out only when it is too late. Indeed, you can get into something that is nothing short of a complete nightmare, so it is best to have open eyes when you come to Indonesia looking for love.

We can’t cover all the aspects of foreign men coming to Indonesia to find the woman of his dreams. Still, we can tell you that you are very unlikely to see her in the form of a prostitute working in a go-go bar, beer bar, or freelancing as a prostitute in a disco or other nightlife establishment. Unfortunately, this is precisely what many men try to do when they come to Indonesia and end up involved in something far more difficult and costly than they had ever imagined. So, the best thing to do is arm yourself with as much knowledge as you can.

She’s on the game

Oh mate, are you kidding me? She is on the game. Have you ever heard anyone say this? What exactly does that mean, “On the game?” Well, in short, it means that the girl in question is a complete player and you are only a target of her game devised to bilk you out of as much money as she can get before you finally catch on and break it off with her. Of course, you aren’t the only one, and many of these girls are working over several men at the same time. It has almost become a kind of sport in the bar scene in Indonesia, and there are more than enough unsuspecting men travelling to Indonesia who are entirely unaware of it and fall victim to the game. We see it every day, and it happens more and more often in recent times. It is of epidemic proportions.

Indonesia on the game

Does this mean all Indonesian ladies who work in bars are dirty rotten scammers? Of course not, and in fact, some of the girls who work in bars are decent girls who don’t have much of choice and join up on the bar scene for a short period to make some money to help take care of the family. The problem arises when they spend too much time in the bar and greed and the influence of hardened bar girls takes them over, then you have a problem. Of course, in most cases, you aren’t going to find the girl of your dreams working in a go-go bar. Still, there have been many success stories of guys who have met girls in bars and ended up getting married, starting families and living happy lives. It’s just that we don’t often hear of that too often these days as we had in the past, times have changed, and so has the attitude of many Thai girls who work in bars.

Thai society has gone very materialistic in recent years, and the number one source for easy money seems to be in finding a Bule (foreigner) to foot the bill for all those expensive things many of today’s Thai people find so important. The newest iPhone, Gucci bag, gaudy gold necklaces, etc. There are countless cases of men being ripped off by dodgy Indonesian women, and we have seen so many instances of it, but this is what happens if you decide to try and find a meaningful relationship with an Indonesian prostitute who may be a drug addict or just straight up scammer looking to find as much money as she can from as many sources as possible. We have seen cases where an Indonesian woman had numerous boyfriends, was engaged to more than one man at the same time.

Mainstream Indonesian women

So, what can you do? First of all, don’t go looking for a sweet and innocent Indonesian lady in a bar because chances are you aren’t going to find her. If you are fascinated with Indonesian women, try going to regular bars or clubs where normal Indonesians go, only remember, you will be much better off if you have an Indonesian friend who can go with you and act as your liaison between other Indonesian people, and especially good Indonesian ladies, of which there are many! Just don’t ogle and act like a sex tourist because you will get nowhere. Pubs are a smart place to start as many Indonesian women are fascinated with foreign men, and they might go to a good pub to mingle with westerners.

The good

  • Met in a pub popular with Indonesian people, restaurants, museums, etc.
  • Doesn’t ask you for money, or mention any “problems” right off the bat.
  • She comes from a right Indonesian family.
  • She has a regular job and is college-educated.
  • You didn’t meet her in a go-go bar, beer bar, or disco.
  • She doesn’t go to bars and pubs except for the occasional night out.

The bad

  • Met in a go-go bar, disco, or after-hours club.
  • She starts mentioning “problems she has” within the first few hours or days of meeting her.
  • She has a lot of cute clothes, jewellery, gold, expensive top of the line phone, but has no regular job.
  • If she is out in a disco at 4:00 AM on a weeknight, that’s bad.
  • Asks you for money if you have sex.
  • Works in a beer bar, strip club or out in the wee hours of the morning at discos.
  • Seems to be a heavy drinker

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Hey, we get it. Peace of mind is the bottom line, while privacy is a top priority. There is nothing worse than not knowing the truth. Dark secrets hiding in the shadows isn’t fun for anyone. It eats away at your peace of mind and causes stress and worry. So, we understand your dilemma. When we take a case, we know what the end game is. It is to give the client peace of mind while resolving the situation with the truth.

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