Are you caught up in Indonesian Girlfriend Scams? There a many different reasons why you might be having problems with a Indonesian girl. Cultural misunderstandings, lack of trust, lack of freedom, jealousy are a few. We’re hired often to investigate Indonesian Bar Girls with foreigners as boyfriends or husbands. A lot of times we discover the whole relationship is another one of those Indonesian Girlfriend Scams. What exactly does that mean?
Many times, a guy comes to Indonesia and meets a girl in a bar. Other times they meet online in some of the more notorious Indonesian dating sites. These websites are loaded with scammers. In a standard case a guy usually met the girl in a bar. She swears up and down she doesn’t want to work there but has no choice because she has to take care of the family. A lot of time this is true. Most of it is anyway. But, there are also a lot of girls who work as prostitutes in go go bars who are very bad news.
Many are drug addicted scammers whose main goal is to find western men to supply them with spending money. Many men could be supporting her drug habit without knowing it. Most men end up buying these scammers the latest mobile phone, designer clothes, car or motorbike. These girls are the ones you have to be on the lookout for. Meet one of them and your caught in one of those Indonesian Girlfriend Scams. There are thousands of them operating out of Indonesia’s notorious go go bar scene also.
If you met a girl in Indonesia who was working in a bar, she may very well still be working there. She might say she quit but probably didn’t. She is telling you she quit to keep you to keep the cash flow coming. It is possible she did quit. But, unless you have her checked out you can’t know for sure. Many of these girls have more than one man on the hook at one time. We usually find that they have several. Most of the guys are unaware of the fact that they are being played. The reason is that these girls are masters of manipulation and guilt. The Indonesian Girlfriend Scams take down thousands of unsuspecting foreign men every day.
They have a story for every problem that may arise. Stories including water got in phone, I was sleeping, I was in the shower, I was at Mama’s house way out in the boonies. Or, upcountry there is no phone signal, buffalo broke leg, you name it, the excuse is there. The fact is that many times they are telling the truth, but too often we find their story isn’t the truth at all. The reason she can’t pick up the phone is because you will hear the background music in the disco she is in. Not all Indonesian women are like this though and in fact there are a many very good girls who are working in bars. But, they haven’t been there long enough to become the hardcore bar girl yet.
Does this mean all Indonesian ladies who work in bars are dirty rotten scammers? Of course not, and in fact, some of the girls who work in bars are very good girls. Many of them don’t have much of a choice. The join the bar scene for a short period of time to make some money to help take care of family. The problem arises when they spend too much time in the bar, then you have a problem. So, you aren’t going to find the girl of your dreams working in a go go bar. But, there have been many success stories of guys who have met girls in bars living happy lives. We don’t often hear of that these days. Times have changed and so has the attitude of many Indonesian girls who work in bars. That’s why Indonesian Girlfriend Scams are such a problem these days.
So, what can you do? First of all, don’t go looking for a sweet and innocent Indonesian lady in a go go bar. Chances are you aren’t going to find her. If you want to meet a good Indonesian lady go to regular bars or clubs. Go where normal Indonesian people go. But remember, you will be much better off if you have a Indonesian friend with you to act as your liaison. Especially if you want to meet good Indonesian ladies, of which there are many! So, don’t ogle and act like a sex tourist because you will get nowhere. Pubs are a good place to start as there are many Indonesian women fascinated with foreign men.
Positive signs from your Indonesian girlfriend:
Signs of Indonesian Girlfriend Scams:
If you are caught in any Indonesian Girlfriend Scams hire a Indonesia Private Detective. The above mentioned reasons are just a few of the warning signs. But, at times these things do happen. But these things are only likely to happen once. It’s when these things start happening on a regular basis that you need to worry. The bottom line is if you aren’t sure, investigate! Having an independent third party verify the facts for you is the smart way to go. We see a lot of foreign men get caught up in these Indonesian Girlfriend Scams. Most of the time it is a very costly mistake. So, if you aren’t sure, contact us and we will get the facts for you with a professional Indonesian private investigation.
If you suspect your Indonesian girlfriend is up to no good and you want to get revenge on her and ask us for help, you won’t get it. But, if you are having problems with your Indonesian lady, we can help you get the facts. If you’re concerned something may be going on, contact us. We offer free, no obligation consultations. When she isn’t being honest or cooperative, please feel free to contact us. Let us help you discover the truth of the matter with facts and evidence. Then you can decide what you want to do.
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