The Indonesia Dating Site Scam. What exactly does that mean? So, where do we start? There are so many scams in Indonesia we can’t cover them all. The most prevalent are Indonesia Dating Site Scams and Indonesia Bar Girl scams. The two can be combined as one in some cases. Indonesia Bar Girl scams are well know in the country but not so much abroad. Back in the day it was all done by snail mail. Remember those days when people used to write letters? Technology has changed the game today. Now a person can be scammed from anywhere in the world with ease. Many of these scammers come from Indonesia. They use legitimate online dating services to locate and target their victims. Methods similar to the Indonesia Bar Girl scams are used. Most victims are unaware of the scam.
A foreign man meets a Indonesian woman on a Indonesian dating site. They start up an online relationship and things seem great. She’s a young, fun, and a beautiful girl from a farming village in northern Indonesia. The first few days or weeks go well, then things start to change. She begins to tell you things aren’t so great in the land of smiles. You see, Papa needs an operation. Sister lost her job and needs help. Plus she is just dying to advance her life but needs money for school. And of course, she is poor. Boo hoo hoo. You message and call her as often as you can. You stare at her text messages… I love you too much! I miss you too much! However, you can’t wait for your first trip to Indonesia to see her. Everything is going so well and the world is wonderful.
Then out of nowhere, disaster strikes! The family buffalo broke a leg and can’t plow the fields. The vet says it might die if not treated immediately. But the treatment will cost a small fortune. It’s more than they can afford! And if that wasn’t enough, Papa had a heart attack! Now he’s in the hospital and no money to pay the bills. She’s tried to ask other family members for money. But they are dirt poor too. What will she do? You are her last hope! Without your help, her family will be in a terrible situation! Destitute and no way to turn, she pleads for your help. So, like a comic book hero you spring to the rescue. Bodoh Bule (stupid foreigner) to the rescue! You copy down her info and head straight to the nearest Western Union office to save the day. Don’t forget that MTCN number!
Except, of course, that the buffalo isn’t sick. They don’t even own a buffalo. She’s not really a cashier at 7-11 either. Worse, she’s probably asking her 2 or 3 other foreign “boyfriends” for the same amount of money. She’s probably sitting at the bar she works in right now joking about it with her Indonesian boyfriend. Congratulations! You’ve just joined the club. Does any of this sound familiar to you? This is the trap many foreign men fall into with a Indonesia Dating Site Scam. They don’t understand the game, nor do they know what the game is. Indonesia Dating Site Scam is very similar to the Indonesia Bar Girl scams. Most of the time it is the same thing. Many of the Indonesia Dating Site Scam perpetrators are Indonesian Bar Girls. This is not always the case. But it is becoming the trend.
The nightlife in Indonesia is expensive for the average Indonesian girl. Drinks in clubs and discos average IDR 90.000 per drink in 2018. Approximately $8.50 in US dollars. The average Indonesian salary for working class people in 2018 is IDR 3.500.000. That’s $300 US dollars. An average apartment is IDR 1.000.000. That leaves an average of IDR 2.000.000 to live on for food and other expenses. Very few Indonesian girls can afford to go out clubbing on such a low income. So, they either end up working in bars or find other methods. One of our operatives is a former Indonesian Bar Girl. According to her the new and preferred way of meeting men and sourcing income is through Indonesian dating websites. It saves them lots of money otherwise lost at expensive nightclubs and discos. So, why go out and spend money when you can make money on the Internet at home?
It makes a lot of sense. According to her more and more Indonesian Bar Girls are quitting bars and taking up fishing on Indonesian dating sites. Many of them are running a Indonesia Dating Site Scam on unsuspecting foreigners. It is fairly easy to do. I know how gullible some men are. A previous client sent a Indonesian girl he never met before $7000.00 USD. An additional $3000.00 was sent to expedite the visa process. No such process exists but he believed her story. Then she disappeared without a trace and asked us to help him locate her. Not because he was angry. Because he was worried. He was worried something happened to her. We found her at the address she gave him. We found her husband and two children too. An experienced Indonesia Private Detective knows what to look for.
They say a sucker is born every minute. Especially on Indonesian dating sites. The amount of victims is high. We get many requests for investigations involving the Indonesia Dating Site Scam. Most are middle aged men who think they have landed a hot 26 year old Indonesian girl. They meet, they correspond, they get intimate online, and they fall in love too. He does anyway. In reality he is being setup and played. Experts in the Indonesia Dating Site Scam have excellent emotional blackmail and manipulation skills. Many of them are Indonesian Bar Girls who honed their skills working in go-go bars and the streets of Jakarta. They’re street training migrates perfectly to the Indonesia Dating Site Scam. So, how can you avoid the Indonesia Dating Site Scam? Rule #1? Hire a professional Indonesia Private Detective first.
If a girl on a Indonesian dating site asks you to support her, check her out first. Never send money to anyone you haven’t verified as legitimate. You are asking for trouble. SiamSpy handles many cases like this. It is similar to a Indonesian Girlfriend Background Check. We will locate her and check for the presence of a Indonesian husband or boyfriend. We will also find out if she is working in a bar or other sex trade related occupation. Many girls who run a Indonesia Dating Site Scam are Indonesian Bar Girls. The second highest frequency of girls running the Indonesia Dating Site Scam are freelance prostitutes. With ever increasing costs of living in Indonesia, we expect this trend to increase rapidly. The Indonesia Dating Site Scam will probably gain more popularity in the coming years. Don’t become a victim. Be smart, hire a Indonesia Private Detective.
If you think you might be the target of a Indonesia Dating Site Scam, let us know. Contact Us for a free, no obligation consultation. We are here to help.